Im a housewife, 43 years old and definitely not planning to get divorced.. So im not searching for the new love of my life

All i want and what i deserve i think is a decent sex life again.. My man really doesn’t wanto to have sex anymore, he is a bit older then me and we had great years, plus he has a demanding job.. So i can understand him but i cant deal with it, i just need good sex from time to time

So whatever we do we will have to do it very discretely, my man has some suspicions ofcourse but i woudl really like them to be just that, suspicions

So age skincolor and all  that not important.. Just need a mn thats decent looking that takes care of himself and can meet up at regular (once a week?) intervals